Thinking we’ll never get over him. We will. Two months and several powdered donuts later... we’ll feel better. Hacking into email or phones looking for suspicious messages and then yelling at him for the “k thnx bye” text he sent to his female co-worker two months ago. “kthnx” is not code for “hot steamy sex. Thinking our partners must be interested in everything we do, think and say. Putting so much energy into the idea of a fairy-tale romance that we’re disappointed with anything less. Dropping our friends when we’re falling in love. Friends help define who we are, and we need them when things get tough. Thinking that getting a boyfriend or husband will solve all our problems. No one can fix our lives for us! www.yourtango.com