Why don’t some women want to account for their wrongs?

Relationships are not supposed to be perfect and when one of the partners makes a mistake, the couple should be able to talk over things and that’s that. Well my case is quite different. When my woman does something wrong and we sit to talk about it so that I can express how I feel about it, she starts crying and hugs me before I even say a word.Any normal man, with his woman’s arms around him and tears rolling down her eyes, wouldn’t even think twice of letting it go. And she knows it will work and cover up for what she did.So we never really get to talk about her mistakes because she uses that against me. But trust me when it’s me in wrong, I will get a 30 minute lecture telling me of how disappointed she is and four hours or more of “I DON’T WANT TO TALK TO YOU, I’M STILL MAD”Women should treat men the way they would treat them if they had done the same. Of cause there is not a man who is going cry on his lady’s shoulder and expect not to be lectured after. Just saying.