Ladies, when it’s over, it is over!

I have had to learn the hard way that men do not have the balls to end relationships. I wonder why we still look at them as brave beings, when they are so afraid of handling trivial matters.Men will not tell you it is over, or it is not working between the two of you, No! They will ignore you, until you insist on a declaration of hate. It should not be so hard for you to smell that he is on his way out. For starters, if he suddenly seems very distant, cold and he gives you that weird attitude, most times you can tell the attitude am talking about, but then you try to ignore it and yet it should be a sign.A man that wants to leave you will develop mood swings like as if they are in their monthly menstrual period, they will suddenly learn to snap at you for no reason, behaviour that they did not have before. Take not of that too.There is the type that tries to get all “soviet union” on you, changing passwords, going with his phone to the bathroom, receiving those phone calls in the middle of the night and not being ashamed to walk out of bed to go speak to someone else at that late hour, how clearer do you want it to be that there is obviously a new girl in the picture and he is probably taking her serious.Certain things should be as clear as glass, and even when they are apparent, some women just like hanging on to the guy like a dog hanging onto a meatless bone.Ladies, it is pathetic to show off your desperation to a douchebag that does not have the guts to break it off with you but rather wants to keep you there for his personal use and later call you a “friend with benefits.” Some of us even have the nerve to cry for the dude, come on! It is not attractive, not even to the idiot himself that you are tearing for. If he did not have the decency to tell you that stuff is not working, what are you doing clinging onto him? I say unto you, set your standards.What beats me is the fact that nice girls always get to be treated like garbage by losers and these other “ninja like girls” that everyone looks at with the “judgy eyes” do not take any bull crap from anybody and perhaps that is why they always end up with the nice guys.Someone recently humoured me, when she tried to walk me through the head of an egoistic man and how he only thinks with one part of his body, yes your guess is as good as mine, he reasons with his brain, but he does not put it to good use when he is reasoning about relationships.One thing that I have recently had to comprehend is the saying “treat them mean and keep them keen” actually works. Sometimes, some men just have to be kept guessing.It is time to clean out your closet and get rid of all that rubbish that you are keeping, and should have gotten rid of a long time ago. If he is not treating you right and you feel like you are putting in much more than he is, quickly damp the douche before he damps you plus if he was man enough then he would do the right. So deal with it, he is not good enough for you.Some argue that a man only treats a woman the way the woman lets him treat her, which makes absolute sense, otherwise how do I explain what you are still doing with him. But maybe we should learn to put a limit to certain things and make sure that line is not crossed.However, not all men are bad, there are those that are super awesome, but as women we carry this lame ideology of all the good men are out there are taken, no they are not. I am sure there are plenty of fish in the sea. And good fish I must say.