Don’t just judge your man

Men and women do things differently and it doesn’t mean because something unusual has happened, you jump into conclusions. Gentlemen still exist. “He was a player in high school – I don’t think he will be faithful”, you say. Haven’t you heard that the difference between men and boys is the ability to treat a lady like a gentleman does? Well in high school he was a boy and now he is a man.“He is so silent and cold – he doesn’t like me anymore”, you say. Well, men are usually the bread winners of the home; things may not be going well either at work or financially. You want him to jump and laugh as usual? Well no. He needs some time to be alone and think of a way out.“He didn’t call back – he didn’t enjoy our date”, you say. Well you have been together all night, and maybe even the next day. Isn’t it too much talking? Can’t I just call you the next day? “He never really loved his ex that much – maybe he also doesn’t love me”, you wonder. Well, first find out why he broke up with her. You and his ex are two different people so stop comparing yourself to her.“He has a password on his phone – he maybe texts the same love messages to other girls”, you complain. If you trust your man then you shouldn’t even think about his phone and if you are not giving him reason to cheat then sit back and relax. He is all yours.