THE MEN’s CORNER: If you trust your man, leave his phone alone

My boyfriend gets mad at me whenever I hold his phone. He seems insecure. Could he be cheating? Why do guys find it hard to give their girlfriends their phones? Does it mean he is cheating? JessicaDear Jessica,How would you feel if someone always wanted to read your emails, text messages and Facebook? Wouldn’t you feel like your privacy was being violated? Throw in the fact that a lot of women are extremely suspicious, always trying to catch us doing something wrong, and it’s little wonder that some men find the whole ‘phone issue’ problematic. No one wants to feel distrusted and violated, and we men aren’t any different. Maybe you should ask yourself this, what is it about his phone that so fascinates you? Don’t you think that, because you are making it a big deal, it is becoming a self-fulfilling prophesy? If you think that there are real issues of trust in your relationship maybe the best plan is to have a discussion about it instead of skirting around the issue.