Aunt’s corner

Dear Aunt Silvia, Please, help me. My wife does not like my mother; I lost my father recently and requested my old mother to come and live with me and my family, but she is having a very difficult time with my wife. When I ask my wife about it, she dismisses me saying that I only listen to my mother and not her. What surprises me is the fact that she has openly told me to return my old mother to the village where she is all alone, or she packs her bags and leaves. In this kind of a situation how do I choose between my mother and my wife?James