Relationships : How to know that he is interested in you

Many women have spent sleepless nights wondering if that guy you have a thing for has even noticed that you exist. Be not dismayed for there are answers and tale-tale signs that will calm your situation Revealing the secrets of how men flirt can help women in the love department. Men provide many non-verbal clues that you just need to recognize. Learning to interpret a male’s subconscious body gestures can help you determine whether you’ll be getting a second date. Male body language will also let you know when he’s not the one. If a man doesn’t display any of the following signs, you’re better off moving on to the next eligible bachelor. Improved appearance: He’ll attempt to improve his appearance when he’s attracted. Just like in the animal kingdom, males tend to “preen” when they’re interested in a female. They pay extra attention to their grooming and personal appearance. When a man spots an interesting female, he may automatically adjust his tie, smooth his collar or brush his shoulder. Other common signs of preening involve fixing his hair or rearranging his shirt, cuff links, and clothing. He may check his teeth or automatically touch his throat. He wants to look as good as he can before he approaches you. Therefore ladies, you should take any of the above as a very positive sign! The Alpha-male act: The term “alpha male” refers to a man who is a strong and smart leader. The term comes from the highest ranked or most dominant individual among social animals such as dogs or wolves. The alpha leader always dominates the rest of the pack and gains priority in mating with females. Men do the very same thing! A flirting male may place his hands on his hips to subconsciously make himself appear bigger. This gesture says “Notice me. I’m the leader and I’m ready to get involved!” A man may also pull in his stomach, puff up his chest or stand a little taller. Eye contact: Eye contact is very important when you are studying how men flirt. Men who are interested will usually hold their gaze for a little longer than usual. Their pupils may also dilate when they’re attracted to a woman. In fact, a man’s pupils can become four times bigger when he is interested.The ‘Triangular Formulation’ Men may also perform what is called the “triangular formulation” with their eyes. This involves looking eye to eye, then down to a woman’s mouth and chin, down to the rest of her body and back up to her eyes again.Can’t keep hands to himself This is an important point to notice when you watch how men flirt. When a man is interested in a woman, he will often find an excuse to touch a woman. He may put a hand on her shoulder or knee, tickle her playfully or pat her on the back. Some men may even feel a woman’s blouse, jacket or shoulder. For example; he may come up with a quick excuse such as, “your blouse looked so soft I just had to feel it” or “I was just removing a piece of lint from your dress”. If a man starts performing the above gestures, it’s a very good sign that he is interested in you. iruikmo@yahoo.com