KIBS…I’m stuck! : I love him but I can’t tell him

Dr. Innocent, I appreciate what you are doing because you are mending so many relationships but how I only wished you had a radio show. Why don’t you start one anyway?  My problem Doctor is that there is this guy who has completely intoxicated me…I think I love him so much but I just can’t say it to him because in our culture, girls do not pursue guys for dates. Help! What must I do? I’m stuck!