Rachel’s Ramblings : The habitual cheater

Many women have prayed so hard for some kind of medication to be created for the guy who feels that one woman just isn’t enough. Sadly, that is a prayer that hasn’t yet been answered. If it ever will is still a mystery. Why these guys choose to cheat ranges from boredom to temptation to claiming they’re not getting enough from the one permitted to provide! Whatever the reason is, nothing can justify infidelity. Men have been caught with their pants down in a situation not even a genius can conceal. There’s always an annoying excuse of sorts say; ‘It’s not what it looks like.’ I get you stark naked on top of another equally naked lady and the best you can tell me is that ‘it’s not what it looks like!’ Don’t say anything at least until the situation is under control. Hope Arinaitwe, 27, a sales girl at a phone shop in Kigali town says she believes all men are cheats and that’s exactly what they were born to do. “You can’t find a faithful man on this planet. He hasn’t yet been born!” said Arinaitwe. Her harsh judgment comes from an even harsher experience. There’s no telling her otherwise. “Every guy I’ve dated has just been a major disappointment,” she adds. There is a man who can charm the socks off any woman; he will not hesitate to use this skill to his advantage. He has a wife or girlfriend but with all these hot female things swimming his way, he just can’t help himself. Even in the presence of his lady he will flirt without the slightest trace of shame on his part. If a man can openly flirt in your presence, imagine what he can do in your absence! Almost every girl is either related to him or a very great friend. One he hasn’t seen in such a long time hence his over prolonged conversation with her. Sometimes women can be so naive to the extent that they don’t want to face the ugly truth when it’s staring right at their face. That the man we love even more than we love ourselves, is a perpetual cheat. It’s sad that some women have stereotyped all men but you can’t blame them. If they have lived through relationships destroyed by infidelity then just like Arinaitwe, there are no polite words left. Men should have some self control and try not to get excited by every passing skirt. In this day and age you’d think people are more educated on the dangers of having multiple sexual partners. Alas, AIDS is here to kill human beings not insects! cjanzi83@yahoo.co.uk