Society debate; Do Cheats Deserve a Second Chance?

Of course, I would take him back Humans will never cease to amuse me! They enjoy blaming others; they never picture themselves ever being caught in the act. As for partners who persecute others, I can find no kind words for them. For starters, cheating can happen to anyone especially because we are human and are bound to make mistakes. Imagine moving on to the next, next and next relationship because they cheated on you and at the end of it all, you cheat on someone else! I am not condoning cheating, but it’s natural. Stop making yourselves out to be perfect gods and goddesses! And so what if he cheats on you but confesses it? That’s the storm super star Usher Raymond and his celebrity girl friend Chilie faced. Usher being an honest guy, he confessed about his cheating and Chillie called it quits. Poor girl, I guess she is still regretting it. It takes an honest guy to confess anyway, aren’t there thousands who cheat but never own up to it? Stop exaggerating things; just give good guys a chance. Before you get resentful, why not first analyse whether you had a hand in his cheating? I mean, there different reasons that cause people to cheat. Maybe you weren’t there for him when he needed you and he ran into someone else’s hands. Many people can only compare to “early man” when it gets to love, so when your lover finds some fun else where, why even fuss about it? Instead, you should ask them what the partner they cheated with did better, so you can adjust. And when Jesus said that “reward evil with good”, he really made a point. If instead of furming, you treated a cheating partner well, they could change for the better. Will you just quit a marriage because your husband cheated? Then why did you make those vows….”for better for worse”? And what happens if the next partner is also a cheat? Its this simple…if you don’t have the guts to be patient, then quit the whole love thing. After all with someone you only met when you are grown up, you must always expect anything. I’m sorry if I am hurting your feelings, but please….don’t be so naïve that you dream about a “never cheating Mr Perfect.” Come on, you are too smart for that! And what if he has all that you would want in a man; will you let him go after cheating once? Probably you don’t know what you want; you will dump the next guy probably because he smiles a lot. I just can’t help laughing at that bold decision to dump someone you have always pretended to love. Don’t you think you can be the best source of help, even when if his cheating has become chronicle? As the saying goes, quitters never win while winners never quit. And if he is your dream guy, why not fight for him? You are practically throwing him to his partner’s arms, if you reject him. Instead of dumping a cheating partner, just visit a counselor, you surely need help because you don’t know what you want. Shame on you. lillianean@yahoo.com