Why women ditch men

It takes a couple seconds to say Hello, but forever to say Goodbye – Anonymous A successful relationship is plausible only with mutual acceptance of each other in a complete manner. If you are wondering what exactly went wrong and why the most-loved woman in your life has dumped you, the problem could actually be YOU! A woman would have qualms about dumping her ‘Mr. Right’ when she learns he is more ‘wrong’ that ‘right’! Mr. never spends quality time You have always been there for her in the initial courtship period but somehow after the chocolates and all the red roses, you have probably not spent quality time with her. Nothing irks a woman more than the least amount of interest expressed by the man she loves. If you haven’t given her enough time from your busy schedule or kept her waiting endlessly for a date, well, you deserve to be dumped! Mr. shows all shades of green Being possessive to a certain extent is natural in any relationship, but no woman would like to have her guy breathing down her neck all day long. Sure, you have to protect your woman from the bad guys outside, but a little trust in her would help you to secure the bond and bring her closer to you rather than making her want to dump you! Mr. shows no signs of respect Respect for each other is required for a successful relationship. Have you taken your ladylove for granted lately? Have you ridiculed her about her career or other aspects connected with her life? If you do not respect her, chances are you would be shown the door sooner than expected! Mr. is too predictable Couples need to think about adding excitement in the relationship. So what if you have been going steady for five years, you can still try various ways to keep the relationship as exciting as ever. Maybe your woman has been trying too hard and you have not responded well enough. You may then be too predictable and in other words, plain boring! Mr. is commitment phobic A woman would definitely expect some commitment from you if you have been courting her for a long period of time. Although some women may tend to be obsessed with the commitment factor, a stage would arrive in a relationship when the couple needs to think and plan if they would like to spend their life together in matrimony. A lack of commitment towards issues related to her life may make her dump you like a hot brick. Mr. lacks ambition Loving a man with no ambition is a very demotivating factor for any woman who wishes to have a relationship that’s for keeps. Seeing her man lazing around with no drive or goal in life can be a complete put-off for a woman. ‘Mr. Right’ can’t stop gushing about his ex-gal!A man who keeps talking about his ex-girlfriends and gushes about her all the time can lead to a break up even before he can realize what’s hit him! Nothing can annoy any self-respecting woman more than watching her man make constant comparisons between his girl and his ex-girl. A woman will show no signs of regret to dump her ‘Mr. Right’ if he shows all these particular signs that completely turn her off. Even then, if you feel you have been true to her and pampered her in all respects, then stop moping around the house and get a life. So, the next time you wonder why women break up with men, take a look at yourself from within and maybe you will get the answer. Source: Buzzle.com