A memorable Christmas for your spouse

With all the ups and downs in your affair this year, you have come to the worst. You feel like calling it quits but your heart is betraying you, you still love him/her. Perhaps, you have been looking for a chance to prove your care but in vain. This Christmas, you can bring back to life that futile relationship. The chance to express your unfailing love has availed itself. Simply do something to make ‘Christmas’ memorable in your relationship. Here are the unique things that will touch his/her heart. A special treat; Now that you’re home and relaxed. Give your man/woman good time that will keep them guessing even when they get back to work next year. Adventure things that you usually never do for him/her. For instance, feeding spouses often makes them shy but they love it. Your dress code might as well make them appreciate you more and realize how beautiful you are. And yes, a compliment also works, tell them how good they look, how understanding they are and they will open up to you. In a bid to treat them special, you can employ the down to earth technique; remove his shoes when he gets home. There’s magic in washing his feet as well; it will stimulate his urge for you and it’s a symbol of respect too. A candle lit dinner for just the two of you also works. Start with a walk, perhaps in the park, a forest or an isolated place. Hold hands and talk all the way. After the tiresome walk, you can share a bath. Scrub each other’s back, rinse each other, and then hit the dinning table. While dining, play some music, perhaps you played when you first met. This will refresh your love; you will remember why it’s her/him you chose. Almost forgot break fast in bed. Let the sweet aroma of fresh food be the reason for their early rising. Breakfast in bed makes them appreciate your care for them. Foregoing your sleep is enough evidence that you’ll walk miles for them.And as you decorate the house for Christmas, consider there favourite colour. You can have a blue Christmas because he/she likes blue. Knowing their colour definitely says you are cautious about any little thing associated with them. A surprise trip to a romantic place revives love as well. Fellow ladies will support me that we {ladies} love traveling. And nothing would be better than traveling with a lover. And as you buy that gift, purchase one from his/her favourite list. Don’t forget red roses, they emphasise love feelings. With this through the day, the remaining thing is kissing them good night. lillianean@yahoo.com