RELATIONSHIPS : What do women really want from men?

In today’s world, we have discovered many teenagers falling in love with over aged men, spitting out their own age mates. While others are facing the situation due to peer influence. In days gone by, women used to be with men for the aim of getting married, which is not the case now. Sometimes people ask themselves what really women need from men, and they have failed to obtain the correct answers. Several reasons have been raised by different people who have participated in this game. According to my own perspective, I have absolutely discovered that some women especially younger ladies in universities admire men purposely to milk money from them. Due to the extreme need to fulfill their desires and overcome their problems, women find themselves engaging in love just to earn money. When I interviewed Deborah Mutesi a student at Kampala International University, she exclusively believed that “lust for sex may inspire ladies to go for men. And this is so common among youths that for her, she doesn’t care provided she gets sex whenever she wants”. There are few women who love men for the aim of being cared for. This is so crucial in one’s life. Emotionally women have it in mind that once you’re with a man, there will be two important issues that will exist (care and comfort )while others insist on the physical appearance of men, sometimes basing on dressing code. Though education was not considered in the past in things pertaining love affairs, it has been proved beyond reasonable doubt, that the level of education may lead someone to fall in love. They reached the extent of formulating a saying that “To marry or love an uneducated man is to die when you’re still alive”. This implies that they take educated men as a pillar which would make the entire family successful. Therefore, there are women who were gifted with strong love. For them leaving other factors constant, they take love as the first priority. So they want to be loved such that if she experiences any emotional feelings like she is crying and the tears are rolling down her face, he should kiss her tears and say something like “let me take all your sorrows away”. Therefore, let us forget the above mentioned research since it justifies and acknowledges what really women need from men and follow God’s great love as the bible says when he delivered his only one beloved son (Jesus) with all his heart. So I am just kindly requesting that if you decide to love someone, forget other factors like money, level of education, tribe, wealth and love with all your heart. kabeeraerick@gmail.com