RELATIONSHIPS : When and how do we get our soul mates?

You wake up one morning full of life with a cocky demeanor; you get a head start in your daily errands completely having no idea who are or what is coming your way because somethings happen when our instincts are also having a rest. As you retire for a treat of a cold cocktail juice at Blues Café, you find yourself face to face with the most gorgeous lady your senses have never perceived; you compose your self not to compromise the masculine ego in you. Moments later after the formal pleasantries your instincts wake up to notify you that she is also a good natured person with a grace that is as warm as her voice. You start exhibiting a disposition that is somewhere between not wanting to be so excited and not wanting to blow your chances away. But deep inside you is a glowing feeling that she is the person you have been waiting for all your life, not because of her stunning beauty but because of the strange feeling you have never experienced with the myriads you have met. You don’t want to spoil the moment in any case you would want it to last forever, there is a practical panic in you and you get these voices inside your head asking stressing questions making you feel like Joey Tribbiani in the comedy series of Joey. For the first time you view a complete beauty in an unselfish way as opposed to the days you have undressed half the city’s beautiful girls in your mind, where the trendy line has been ‘hey stunner mind a drink’ and the next would be ‘mind I take were I live’ and the rest would be history. As you talk you feel like it is not coming from where your normal usual speeches have been coming from, it feels refreshingly original, you listen to her talk and you wish she doesn’t stop. Now that not only shows that you have fallen in love but you have found what you dint even know you were searching for but as you may realize at this point, you don’t even a slight idea of how things will turn out. After a few days and a couple of calls you get perfectly convinced that it wasn’t a concealed crush but the person you met that evening is the one you would give the world given half a chance. Now the question is, did anything make meaning to her that evening, did she by any chance feel like you, would she believe it when you tell her you would cross Alaska to Siberia on foot for her, if not what other way would you have impressed her and made a long lasting statement on that eventful evening. What do you think a person in this position would have done or should do to get his soul mate who he discovered in such a twisted way, share with me on this one. gahimore@yahoo.com