Think before you act

RELATIONSHIPS: In order to avoid disappointments, regrets, heartbreaks and sometimes even loss of life either subjected by the parner or suicide, one has to think before acting. One should always bear in mind that although relationships are there to be made, outcomes can be positive or negative. However, the negative outcomes can be avoided by being careful before giving in to the relationship. On the side of girls, one must be very careful when making a choice on the right person who is ready for a trustworthy lifelong relationship. The girl should check out the potential love of her life’s background, family and their culture. Most girls like handsome guys loaded with money. They oft times do not care about somebody’s background and even characters which I think many times leads to regrets, heartbreaks and worse. As for the young men, my advice is to always first seek advice especially from their mothers because they are the best teachers in the family due their own experience. In order to avoid getting a partner who is a liar, cheat and untrustworthy, one should not follow a girl’s beauty but you should consider a variety of things like her behaviour, seriousness, care and even the love she has for you. To both girls and boys, you should always pray for God’s help in order to get a great partner for a good relationship and a great marriage with no regrets. So dear youth, always think before acting, even in matters of the heart. This way, you will get the right partner for a brighter future, relationship and love. Also, always be trustworthy, faithful, and even caring to your partner. When you do this, you will likely get the same from your partner. murungi2020@yahoo.fr