RELATIONSHIPS: You want her for yourself? Give her the care

There are so many broken relationships around the globe. Even right now as I note down this article, so many couples are in courts of law filing for divorce but I continue to wonder whose fault. Is it the husband’s or wife’s fault? There are very many single mothers out there who even do not want to get married fearing to be heart broken in marriage. Some even claim that all men are the same in the way they treat their wives. Contrary to what women think about men, all they need is a lot of care in order to win their hearts. Every woman, dreams of being swept off her feet when it comes to a relationship. The best way to show you care is by being there for her, listening to her. Comfort her if she needs it, even if it means missing a football game like Manchester United playing Arsenal or Barcelona. You can miss it in order to be with your wife. If she is not a soccer fan, in this case she will feel more loved than before. In a relationship, women don’t have to be the only ones who show they care. You’ll reap the benefits if in the relationship the woman feels supported. Women are usually the ones more willing to comfort their husbands with kisses and hugs. A woman’s heart is fragile. The more she feels less cared for, the more she is heart broken. She needs that care. And a lot of it. A woman needs a knight in shining armour to come and rescue her at times when she is in danger, if she knows that she can rely on a man in the relationship. She wants to feel that she is in safe hands -- physically, materially and emotionally secure. Women want men who can step up and take charge of the situation. Make her stand out from the crowd because every woman wants to feel special, the one in a million. Ignoring her sometimes works to a man’s advantage because invisibility can make her feel insecure. If she’s insecure about herself she may be attracted to you because you trigger those feelings of insecurity that she already has. The nightmare of this is that, that same insecurity will fail your relationship and cause you not to enjoy being around her in the longer term. Make her feel smart and funny and easy on the eyes. This includes appreciating her physical, emotional, mental and spiritual attributes. It does not include you trying to impose your views of feminine beauty on her body, emotions or thought process. She needs to be complimented if you tell her that she looks beautiful, that sounds great. Take her out to the beach over the weekend and tell her how much you love her and miss her when she is not with you, here she will give you her heart and develop much trust in you. A woman needs to be treated like a queen, open the door for her and be a true gentleman, because as far as women are concerned these days, true gentlemen don’t exist anymore, they are like a fairy tale to them. A woman needs a good relationship where the husband loves her the way she is and this gives her comfort in the relationship. Guys take your wives out to a new movie she has perhaps never thought of seeing, surprise her with gifts on her birthday. At least remember it. Make the woman happy to do something she likes most especially if you go out for a party, make sure you stay by her side throughout. Guys go make those dreams come true and be her prince charming. You’ll then be assured that you are going to win her heart Ends