In the workplace, it’s believed that people who are assertive tend to thrive more than others. This is because such people are able to stand up for themselves in a way that propels their success. Diana Nawatti, a head teacher and counsellor says having these skills makes one transparent in whatever tasks they carry out, including how they communicate with their colleagues. It has been established that being assertive also generates results by controlling the immediate environment in a very positive manner. Assertive people are also very self-assured, which means they effortlessly gain the respect of the people they work with. It’s believed that every workplace has certain challenging aspects, be it a difficult team, tough managers, and so on. For this reason, Nawatti says one way of effectively standing up to any of these issues, is by being assertive. Why it’s important Nawatti says this is one of the skills that can boost one’s self-esteem and have a positive impact on their workplace achievement and personal happiness in life. Assertiveness is truly important at work and for those with such a skill, Francis Mwangi, a lecturer says it helps them become more effective at work. He explains that most of the time those people possessing this skill tend to go for what they want, and that most importantly, they are open and easily get along with everyone. It is also easier for such employees to understand their rights as well as recognise when someone is taking advantage of them. When you learn to be assertive, you won’t be easily intimidated by your colleagues. “Being able to act in an assertive way will help you control your emotions in a better way. This is very important in the workplace, as a lack of it becomes a sign of weakness,” Mwangi points out. Assertive people are also in position to approach what they do with confidence hence having the ability to make impact in the environment they are in. According to Aime Prince Lionel Murara, the deputy national coordinator in charge of operations and partnership at Education for Nations and Humanitarian Africa (ENHA), when you are assertive, you are able to set boundaries, meaning that such people will know what is good for them as far as work and dealing with others is concerned. When boundaries are set, he says it adds clarity to one’s professional relationships and helps to limit unwelcome interactions and behaviour. Also, Murara notes that assertiveness can help you judge when to speak up and when to hold your tongue; which will help you to steer clear of potential trouble. “When you are assertive, I believe it also makes you confident and makes your body language more positive. This is important because it’s something that defines you,” he says.
