Dear Counselor I am a 31-year-old single woman. I’m beautiful, with a good personality— something that I think should create a center of attention for men. All my friends are ever wondering why I never find a guy who can even take things to another level. Honestly, I am tired of going to my friends’ weddings who are actually not even good looking or old as I am. I am so desperate and I have a feeling like everyone feels sorry for me. I wonder how I can attract men or find someone good who would amount to my expectations. Kindly advise me on what to do or a better way forward for me because my biological clock is ticking. Yours desperate, Jacqueline.