Letter of the week

Editor, Reference was made to the counselor's question on Thursday, December, 25 2014 of a man who was contemplating to leave his girlfriend for an old flame he bumped into recently. I couldn't help but shake my head at what kind of man would date a girl for four year, is in a hurry to get married and start a family while at the same not sure of his feelings. Is it normal or am I just being unrealistic?