Why are my toe nails turning black?

I used to have normal coloured finger and toe nails. They were long and strong and almost everyone who knows me used to admire them. I don’t like painting my finger nails but my toe nails are always manicured. However, about four months ago, I noticed my nails were changing colour to something very disturbing - especially the big one. It now has this gray colour. Also, when I wear closed shoes, by evening I feel like it (the big nail) was hit by something. The pain is so bad I have now stopped wearing closed shoes. I am worried that it might fall out sometime. I no longer go for pedicures as I am too embarrassed to let the manicurist see my nail…so I paint them myself because they are hideous to look at without nail polish. What is going on? Alicia
The New Times
Times Reporter