Dear Aunt Silvia,I am a man of 29 years of age. I live in Kigali doing my Masters degree at a local college and would like to meet a woman of 45! Kalisa Dear Kalisa,What will a 29 year old young man be doing with a woman old enough to be his mother? I understand young men nowadays look for old women who are widows and rich, so that they can shower the old women with all the love that they need. But let me give you a piece of advice, it’s not worth it. Look at you, young and educated; why would you need an old woman old enough to be your mother as a lover? Am sure with the level of your education, you can not fail, by all means to get yourself a good girl with good qualities and decent enough to be your friend. Young men need to be reminded time and again that, in the recent past these relationships have proved that young men have never matched well with old women. How comfortable can you be looking into the eyes of a woman so mature? What exactly will you be looking for in her? That old woman will be too slow to match your energetic and huge demands that goes with your age, and you on the other hand will be too demanding to match her slow pace, meaning when it comes to matters of making love, none will be able to satisfy the other. So I suggest you get a woman of your age and love her, you wont feel ashamed to be seen with her holding hands or even kissing? In the mean time you need to erase that kind of thinking from your head in order to make a good decision, do not lust over cash-because the money that you so much need now, will not secure your happiness in future, there is no shortcut to getting rich without consequences, I advise you to take the longest and safest route of all, you will get there no matter how much later. kayitesius@yahoo.com
