We should cherish our culture but accept that it can’t be static

Editor, REFER TO the article, “Traditional weddings: Who is responsible for the death of ‘Ugusaba’ cultural norms?” (The New Times, January 10). I am afraid to say that the writer makes a good observation. But I would also like to add that the best way to preserve culture to withstand the test of time is to make it appealing. One must appreciate the changes in trends and tastes of people. Therefore, any cultural event must take into consideration these changes and must thus be conducted in line with the trend. I personally see no problem borrowing certain elements from other cultures that may appear entertaining while at the same time preserving our own.This is what I refer to as cultural enrichment. I have attended traditional weddings among the Zulus, Xhosa, Baganda and some other African cultures and honestly found some of their practices more entertaining than ours.I stand to be corrected if I am wrong but I think borrowing from other cultures may not necessarily compromise our own. Thanks.Moses Gakuba, Rwanda**********************CULTURE IS not static such that a 91 or 71-year-old should expect to see in today’s Gusaba what was done 7o or 50 years ago. It would be difficult to bring cows to Kacyiru, Nyamirambo or even to homes hired for the function. Back in the day a girl would be married to a groom she did not know. The bride would stay inside the house crying as other people enjoyed the party? Do you want us to go back to that in this time of gender equality? I hope not.In my opinion, what has been outdated is the word Gusaba as what is actually done is an introduction ceremony. The girl introduces her fiancé to her family and an appropriate word should be used. We cannot keep certain cultural practices in this globalisation era.Mariya, Rwanda**********************THE GUSABA as a tradition should be kept. I, however, agree with the writer on how trivial it’s become. Much as I think dowry for example should not be done like in the old days, a cow should change kraal. It’s good for the groom and bride family. After all when the babies arrive more cows will change kraals. It’s our unique tradition and let’s keep it alive.Eva, Rwanda

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We should cherish our culture but accept that it can’t be static