How to keep your man

Do you ever wonder why some women seem to have an uncanny knack for attracting a guy and keeping him hooked?

Evidence shows that it’s not just about physical beauty or intelligence. They have a secret that makes them totally addictive to the man they’re with.

These are the women men refer to as "cool”. When men are talking and they want to let their friend know about the great woman in their life they say, "she’s a really cool woman.”

This is the universal for a woman who just gets it when it comes to being incredible and irresistible. Triggering this kind of intense attraction in your man is actually easy, once you know how.

Some tips

• Take time to enjoy the connection that you are sharing, and don't try and rush ahead.

• Do things that engage him and capture his interest, and then sit back and let him come to you.
• Give him time and space.

• Avoid "killing” him with kindness by complimenting him every chance you get, calling him all the time, doing favors for him without him asking and generally doing whatever you can to be a special friend to him.

• Instead be unpredictable and intriguing. Create tension and interest by not always doing or saying the obvious thing. This will keep him thinking and wondering about you, and get him doing things to get more of your time and attention.

• Don't make the mistake of hoping that sex will bring him closer to you and set up your relationship.

• If you have just broken up with somebody, avoid talking about your previous relationship. If you have had a tough time after trying all the above, then you should do yourself a big favour and try elsewhere.

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