I can’t tell you just how much it saddens me when chicks claim that a possessive man is the one who loves you to the moon and back. Some ‘green’ chick once told me that she loves it when her man gets jealous and asks about her every move. In fact, the more times he calls questioning her moves the better!But I have noticed that intensely jealous boyfriends have stalker-like mannerisms. I say this with a lot of confidence because I’ve had one myself! This dude assumed I had shares in MTN and was therefore not allowed to have zero credit on my phone, if the fact that every time I failed to respond to a text sparked a mini war is anything to go by.He also strongly believed that we shared a phone because the second I would leave it chilling around, he would make it his and start going through texts and call logs! If I somehow missed his calls, it is hard to believe that we actually parted ways with air still in my lungs when he saw me. Once, he asked me what time I got home from work and I told him around 8pm. "No you didn’t. That’s a lie,” he assured me. I don’t know if he’s a freaking warlock or he was hiding in the bushes till I got home – how else can I explain the accuracy of his response?At first it was cute how he would ask me about my day. Slowly but surely, his cute thoughtfulness started sounding like an investigation. His ‘I love you’ seemed more like a death threat – say it back or you die! So scared I was of him that leaving him didn’t seem like an option unless I was in a body bag! So I did what only a true ninja can do and faked my death! I’m kidding – I ended the relationship and I can’t explain just how proud of myself I am for how I did it. I just stopped knowing him. That’s it – to me he just simply stopped existing.  He turned into a full blown stalker during that time and went as far as stalking my friends; one would think I had taken his virginity! Word went around that he had started guzzling alcohol like the Mayans had confirmed the apocalypse! If he wanted my attention, he got it because after watching him stumble over a table in a drunken stupor, I packed my bags the next day and moved to another country!My sisters, if your guy is anything like this, I suggest that you sleep with one eye open!