To understand a man’s love, you need to understand the following:

His eyes fall in love first  

A man uses his sight before his heart. You can’t afford an unkempt look because his jaw will only drop in fright. Dress decently; vulgar and classy are not in the same category.  

Men like the heels, the gorgeous make up and earrings and the captivating scents – just don’t overdo it. Be elegant and stay away from any scent that smells like a mosquito repellent.   

He shows his love 

If you have been with the dude for over three months and he still doesn’t have the guts to introduce you to even his friends, chances are that he is not into it. A man in love wants the whole world to know you are his. You are safer off packing your bags if he hasn’t told a soul about you. If he loves you, he will come after you. 

He protects what is his 

Men have that natural instinct to protect.  Try talking to him about someone that is hitting on you and see his reaction. If he does nothing to show that he cares, your best bet is to bolt! Even small things like making sure that you are walking on the safe side of the road or helping you get something out of your reach or holding the door for you, matter.  

He provides

When a man loves you, he has no problem providing for you. It is their nature to provide and feel needed. A man who constantly complains of being broke and waits for you to pay the bills is a user. Do not take up his role. If he is in love, he will make ends meet and provide. 

He loves standards

Do not lower your standards because you think he will get intimidated and take off. Stick to your principles and values because if he loves you, then he will love the standards too. If you still believe in car doors being opened for you, then he will do it. 

Just be yourself.