How to sustain a long distance relationship

LONG DISTANCE relationships are not for the faint-hearted. This is a good way to test your love for one another one. Many people today live miles away from their loved ones for many reasons.

Friday, March 22, 2013

LONG DISTANCE relationships are not for the faint-hearted. This is a good way to test your love for one another one. Many people today live miles away from their loved ones for many reasons. We all know that if you are not careful you can lose your love to somebody else; since we are all humans it can be the case of out of sight, out of mind. In order to avoid a situation where you no longer feel connected to your loved one – a few things ought to be done.Trust This should be the number one item on your list. You have to trust your partner significantly for the two of you to have a healthy and happy relationship. Since both of you will not be privy to what the other person is doing; this can create anxiety and insecurities unless you trust fully in your partner. Otherwise the relationship will crumble long before you take that flight to your destination.Frequent communicationThis is a constant reminder that even if you live a thousand miles apart, your heart is only yearning for him/her. This goes a long way in making two people become even closer, the distance notwithstanding. Visit frequentlyVisiting your partner frequently will always be like an adventure, someone will always be looking forward to your visits. Make sure you spend quality time together as much as possible. If children are involved here; take a day or two for yourselves and bond. Visit places that the two of you have been dreaming of.  Take advantage of spicing up your sex life and get intimate as much as possible, so that you do not develop a roving eye. Send card/giftEven if it is once in a month, a small gesture of appreciation to express your love for your partner will be much appreciated. Remember it is the small things that matter in life. This will make your partner feel remembered and loved. It is like telling him/her that you always think of them no matter the distance.