Dear Fiona, I have been dating Joseph for six months now. He knew from the very start that I loved music and that I was an underground musician. He changed my life so much that I stopped drinking alcohol and started going to church.

He is the only man who made me believe in marriage and he was promising to help me achieve my dream of becoming a musician. But recently he called at midnight and told me he was not comfortable with my music career and that he was ending the relationship. I still have some feelings for him but he is acting too busy for me. Should I stop music so he can be with me? JaneDear Jane,  Do not keep wearing your self off because Joseph could have moved on already. Yes, in most cases the dumper goes on smoothly because they prepare themselves to end the relationship as the dumpee gets too heartbroken because the relationship ends abruptly on their side.  What you have to do is believe in yourself. For starters, he knew that you were doing music and one day you would appear in magazines. Which means your music is not the reason for ending the relationship. It’s better for you to concentrate on your music now. You should also avoid keeping alone. Get someone to confide in and also have enough sleep in order to relax. Your views…Just ignore him, after all there are still other men out there eying you. RachaelGet another man as soon as you can so that he can know you aren’t desperate for him. I could be the one…Gideon.Those are men; all you have to do is go on with your music carrier and achieve your dream. G