• He shares thoughts, feelings, or information with his "friend” that he doesn’t share with you (creating emotional intimacy)• He makes more time to see his "friend” than he does you, or regularly makes plans with her on weekends (aka prime "date night” time)•  You are not invited to their get-togethers or, if you come along, are made to feel excluded• They share lots of secrets or private jokes (more emotional intimacy)• He gets really defensive when you question the nature of their friendship• When you express concern that his friend is acting flirty or too familiar, he brushes it off, like, "Oh, that’s just Katy. She’s super playful with everyone!”)• He makes protecting his "friend’s” feelings a priority over making sure you feel secure in the relationshipwww.datingwithoutdrama.com