There is the stereotype that men are just ‘orators’ – apparently everything that comes from their mouths are just words with no meaning to them! A while ago, I met a nice lady and everything was going well.  She was really cool. I enjoyed her company and as time went by, I started having feelings for her. One perfect night when the sky was so clear and bright, we decided to make good use of the beautiful night - I walked her home. When we got to her gate, naturally, I gave her a hug and to be honest, I didn’t want to let go. I really wanted to tell her just how much I loved spending time with her and that I cared about her deeply. However, a thought came to me - "What if she thinks I am just saying this to try and get naughty with her? After all, that is what women think most men do!” I decided against it, swallowed my poetic words and said goodnight.It’s true some men just say things they don’t mean just to capture a woman’s heart or for other reasons known only to them, but real men don’t. Why should I pay the price for someone else’s ill will? It’s becoming hard for us to tell women how we feel because we know she won’t believe it. I refuse to be thrown into the same bloody wagon with every guy who feeds women with lies for his own selfish agenda. Not all of us are like that!