Women should stop assuming men know things: TALK TO US!

Communication is one of the keys to a happy and stable relationship, but if the women can’t always verbalise their thoughts, then how will men know what is not going right?

Wednesday, June 27, 2012
Patrick Buchana

Communication is one of the keys to a happy and stable relationship, but if the women can’t always verbalise their thoughts, then how will men know what is not going right?Men do not have super powers. When a man gets home and finds his woman not in her normal mood and asks her what is the matter, most reply with "there is nothing wrong”. But, it’s very evident that more than one thing is wrong.  How will the man know what is wrong if you won’t tell him?When a woman has something that is bothering her, whether it’s a suspicion of infidelity or something less serious, they often run to talk about their feelings with their girlfriends who, at the end of the day, don’t know much about her man or anything about the real situation. So, why not simply confront the man?Women may want their men to do some particular things with them or give them particular gifts, but if you can’t talk to your man, then how will he know these things? After all this lack of information, the woman has the guts to get mad because the man can’t assume to know what she wants. Plenty of time could have saved if she told him what was on her mind.Partners are not exactly supposed to be the same or have similar likes and dislikes. If a man does something that irritates a woman, or she wants to get something across, she should be good partner and tell the man what is on her mind.