For the past years, I’ve read statuses on FaceBook that are ridiculous, funny, stupid and nice. But the most hilarious ones are about confused girls in relationships. Some girl posted this "he tells me he loves but always stands me up, doesn’t give me enough attention, like being with his boys, flirts openly, shouts at me, doesn’t care about my family, criticizes my dress sense, doesn’t remember my birthday, he’s a couch-potato”. While I feel sorry for the poor soul, at some time we’ve all been through such, maybe not all, but what we deceive ourselves by thinking we are too intelligent when it comes to love-affairs and in the long run we endure idiotic behavior from idiotic dirt bags.This always leads to sidelining friends, these girls will end up always feeling guilty when they are not supposed to just because they haven’t agreed with him over some issues even when they’ve known each other for one week. When the love gear is shifted, they rationalize a man’s forgetfulness, insensitivity and absence as just one of those moments, but this soon turns into a habit which sooner than later turns into a custom. There are some men who think they are exceptional that they can’t take responsibility of their pessimistic actions but want to be praised for deeds as big as an atom which are not even theirs. This is where many people start thinking how someone can end up with such an idiotThe answer is; Love. Once someone gets in the mood and starts ignoring any mistake a man makes along the way, they end being binned together with their emotions and garbage. So, what have our girls resorted to; Kisses. It’s a nice gesture of love but remember it’s his actions that count. Here is the deal ladies, if he forgets your birthday, throw him out. If he buys a lousy gift for Valentine’s Day, eject him. If he remembers to call only when he wants to go out with you, don’t allow, just know he’s bored and needs some company. If he prefers his buddies the whole weekend, ignore his invitations for two months, If he’s stuck in adolescence, expect to look after him but he will enjoy laying you. By the way, if he is married, you’re a witch—you are destroying his marriage. Fact: When a man loves a lady, he will do all he can to be with you, introduce you to all his friends and will never criticize you but help make you a better person. Ladies, keep a fenced square mile away from idiot dirt bags, look for gentlemen who will not thrill you, but also respect you.  However much the boys will kill for this, know that the only way to know if he is the one for you is not in his swagger and flatter but in his heartfelt giving.