Though we’d all like to have been born with it, a sense of style is by no means a rite of passage. This, I’m afraid, is no more obvious than in our wearing of jewelry.

There are Rwandan women who know how to make classic staples put together a look that is quirky, cool and distinctive. But too often, I’m shocked and disturbed by a failure to get it right.

Jewelry is fairly considered to be that very special thing that both gives that necessary finishing touches to our looks and boosts our good mood as well as self-esteem. But if worn badly, it’s definitely a fashion disaster.

Notice how jewelry catches the eye and turn heads. Luckily for us all, it is possible to learning how to be beautiful and express the unique individuality that is within.

Some tips

Go easy when going big and bold

If you’re going to wear large bangles or necklaces, don’t wear delicate jewelry also. Also, try to stick to solid color, simple clothes rather than frills or prints. Big, bold jewelry should be the focal point of your outfit.

Mix metals but not styles

It’s okay to wear gold and silver jewelry together, but keep to the same style. For example, wear two delicate chains rather than one that’s delicate and one that’s thick.

Wear the right length

A necklace that falls just below the collarbone goes better with a plunging neckline than a high one. A necklace that falls below the bust goes with a high neckline.

Chokers look great with strapless dresses. Never wear a necklace that falls to the top of the bust with a plunging neckline.

Wear pins anywhere

Pins can go on handbags, belts and even shoes. Attach a scarf to your outfit with a pin. Use pins to hold up the brim of a hat or place several pins around the band. The most ho-hum place to wear a pin is on the shoulder.

Go easy at work

For most offices, it’s acceptable to wear your watch and wedding ring, plus one ring on the other hand, one necklace, one bracelet and one set of earrings only. The earrings shouldn’t dangle. Anything more is considered by most employers to be excessive.

Not just for the ladies

There’s no reason why men can’t enjoy the fun of jewelry. Just remember: "less is more.” There’s nothing worse than simply being draped in shiny metal. A classic watch or an elegant ring should do the trick.

There are plenty of shops springing up in Kigali to help you get the perfect look. Head down to Divaa jewelry shop in the Trade Union Center (UTC) for choice and inspiration.
Just remember to wear your jewelry; it shouldn’t wear you.

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