Pregnancy is not a trap

In today’s society where men have become more cunning and dishonest in relationships, most women have in overrated long-standing relationships have opted for a better way to make them face the reality and marry them. At times when a lady is sure that a man will not marry them, they use pregnancy in order to trap a man into marriage.

Thursday, January 27, 2011

In today’s society where men have become more cunning and dishonest in relationships, most women have in overrated long-standing relationships have opted for a better way to make them face the reality and marry them.

At times when a lady is sure that a man will not marry them, they use pregnancy in order to trap a man into marriage. Can this really yield a lasting relationship in matrimony?

A woman can persuade a man to marry her by trapping him with pregnancy but she can’t force the man to love her and remain faithful to her, so it will all be a wasted effort in the long run.

However, if a guy has decided against a woman, a pregnancy can never trap him. If a man is undecided about a lady, the trap will only be temporary because he was unsure about wanting to be with her in the first place. He may come around out of guilt or to spend time with his child but not for the mother.

Sometimes if the man knows for sure he wants to be with a woman, it could work out but only if he wants to spend the rest of his life with them. After all, a true marriage is about love and not force.

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