Hello Dr. Innocen

I am a university student in my final year. At this stage, I am preparing for another stage in my life. I have so many girls that I have been playing and now I want to settle down with one. Seems I like all of them. Could you please advise me what to do?

Paul.

Hello Paul,

There are choices in life that we make that have a great impact on the rest of our lives. Some of these choices include relationships! Whatever decision you make today will affect your future either directly or indirectly. I would recommend that you try to analyze yourself. Look at your values! The things that you believe in any relationship. Look at where you want to see yourself 10 years from now. After all this serious meditation, look at these girls that you have been dating!

Who of all these really suits what you want to be tomorrow?  One of these women could suit your choice. However at the same time, you may find that since you liked them for all the wrong reasons, none of them also suits your future. In such a situation, I advise you to search for greener pastures. Here I mean that you should then move on and focus on other things, the right person will come your way.

Serious relationships require patience and sacrifice to find, build and also sustain. This is the magic formula. Learn it and practice it. Best of luck!

Dr. Innocent (}innocent250@gmail.com)