Hello Dr. Innocent

I have been dating this girl for sometime but lately she does not pick up any of my calls or even reply my messages. To make matters worse, she does not tell me where I went wrong! Please help.

Rodney NUR

Hello Rodney,

Well girls are very delicate and men need to learn how to handle them. Most girls are very emotional about some things that happen around them; sometimes these small things may change the way they behave!

The most important factor in any relationship is communication and the moment that factor is lost, the relationship exists no more. There could be something wrong that this girl heard from somewhere or else she just does not want you anymore and she is afraid of telling you straight in your face.

Try to get to the bottom of the situation and find out the truth. Ask her point blank on whether she does not want you. Be ready for any answer from her. If she still plays hard to get, give it a break and move on! Remember, time is the best healer. Good luck in your endeavors.

Dr. Innocent