Hey Dr,

I am in absolute pain and I feel ashamed right now. My heart is burdened by what has just happened to me. My girlfriend dumped me a few days ago and when I was trying to get her back, I found her kissing some other person. I love her so much and I want her back. Please help.

Jonathan IFAK
 
Hello Jonathan,

Sorry about the pain you are going through at the moment. I truly understand what you are feeling right now because the girl you love is with someone else. If she dumped you, there must have been a reason why she did that!

Sometimes we need a flash back to see exactly what went wrong and try to correct it. She may not have dumped you because she does not love you but because she needs you to check yourself.

Go and seat down with her and tell her what you feel. Be sincere about your feelings and tell her that you want her back. You can take her for lunch or dinner and tell her the whole truth.

Look into her eyes! Ladies love that and I know this will work. You then discover what she has for you at heart and if she says no, move on! It’s not good to cry over spilt milk!!

Dr. Innocent Ninsiima