Do you know that we are the by-product of our thoughts? What we think affects our behaviors, character and personality. When we look into ourselves negatively, we definitely expect failure. However if we are optimistic about ourselves, things seem to go right.

You may be in a situation were probably your hope has faded, leaving you helpless and down in the spirit. I am here to tell you that you are what you think, if you keep on thinking and focusing on the failures in your life, you are leading to disaster.

Taking my own example, in the last past three weeks, I was so down in spirit, I felt like doing  nothing execpt  thinking negatively about the situation I was stuck into. I had no solution for my fate.   

I could only see failure and no progress. In this weak which is the fourth one, that is when I decided for God to intervene in my situation, I bowed down on my knees and prayed, I asked God to take way all my negative thoughts and ring a brighter side of my life.

Thank God he answered desperately needed pray, from that very moment I prayed, I tuned my mind, I could force my self to see and think positive about the situation which had made me live a hopeless life.     

Today I realize that I was killing my self for no good reason. I am a free lady doing my normal duties with all the joy and the enthusiasm. I now know how to select which thoughts to take in my mind and which to trash.  

Zig Ziglar says that man was designed for accomplishment, engineered for success, and endowed with the seeds of greatness. So there’s no reason we can kill our big dreams over the mere negative thoughts which come into our minds.   

Ann Landers believes that when life’s problems seem overwhelming, look around and see what other people are coping with. You may consider yourself fortunate.”

Some times before socking our selves into those deep negative thoughts about our selves, we should also learn from other. I believe other people’s stories or situations may be worse than ours.       

Positively speaking Zig Ziglar says that you were born to win, but to be the winner you were born to be, you must plan to win and prepare to win. Then and only then can you legitimately expect to win.

Yah you may plan and still fail however in his other quote about self Image Zig says that you are what you are and where you are because of what has gone into your mind. You can change what you are and where you are by changing what goes into your mind.

My dear though things may still go wrong, you can still change them by the way you think or handle the situation. Let us realize our selves positively by selecting what we feed our minds.   

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