Loving is…

Feeling that you are trapped in relationships or a situation that you cannot avoid is so common. Everyone keeps reminding you that you need to love those around you even when they annoy you.

Tuesday, April 21, 2009

Feeling that you are trapped in relationships or a situation that you cannot avoid is so common. Everyone keeps reminding you that you need to love those around you even when they annoy you.

Some people however, would rather choose to run away and give up on a friendship, teammate, teacher, or family member. This they do when they avoid that person or quit the team.

Just because hanging out with someone is not cool enough for you or they are so annoying doesn’t mean you give up on them. Wherever you run, conditions are the same even in our newly found hiding spaces.

This means that when we really love someone, we are ready to love them completely including their weaknesses. Our brothers, sisters, parents and teachers, sometimes make it hard for us to love them.

This is when they annoy us and test our patience. Honestly loving someone when they wrong us is very hard but it is always worth it in the end.

It’s worth it when you help each other overcome their weaknesses as we become stronger. No matter how much we hurt, we need to forgive, love and remember that no one is perfect.

We must respect the uniqueness of individuals around us and still love them enough to appreciate them .We all have different skills and abilities that make us who we are. It is not a favor to love someone since they will also in turn, learn to love you too. This is what loving is.

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