It is disrespectful to show up at someone’s wedding dressed like you are there to watch a soccer match. For every occasion, there is a dress code, and how you present yourself at such, says a lot about you. 

To avoid bothered stares and whispers every time you walk around, here are a few steps on how to make sure you’re on point for every occasion;

The job interview

Have you ever been called in for an interview? Can you remember what you wore? If you didn’t consider what you wore and still secured the job, then count yourself lucky.

Suits will remain ideal for any interview, but one should not be limited to them. Simple yet decent outfits like a pencil skirt and blouse will work well. You could go for a pair of trousers (not too tight), vest and blazer. And with comfortable shoes like a not-so-high pair of heels (it’s an interview not the red carpet), you can’t go wrong.

Avoid heavy makeup (it’s not a magazine shoot), exaggerated accessories like huge hoop earrings and chunky necklaces. Keep the accessories as light and simple as possible. Also avoid strong perfumes.

For a wedding

For Vanessa Mukashema, a designer in Gikondo market, dresses are ideal for such events. One should be cautious of the length as you do not want to show up looking like you are hitting the club right after.

"A wedding is no place for jeans. A cute chiffon, satin (or what have you) dress will do. Kitenge works well too; you can accessorise it with a clutch or purse to complete the look,” says Mukashema.

A night out

According to Erick Birasa, a designer at IAN Boutique in the city centre, one should try their best to look fabulous on a night out. Try a little black dress and gold heels or one sleeved top with leather pants! It’s a night out, anything goes!

"Go for a mini dress or skirt that flatters your figure; go for attire that fits your body well. Heels and a matching handbag will add a sophisticated touch, letting your hair down will not only make you look fabulous, it will show you are ready to party,” he says.

For work

"It all depends on the nature of your job and the dress code of some companies. But in most cases, the work place requires something decent. Go for attire that doesn’t expose your body too much, calm colours which don’t call for attention. Again, one should avoid outfits that make them uncomfortable,” says Annette Nyirashemeza, a boutique owner in Remera.

Church

Like the wedding scenario, it’s just plain disrespectful to show up to the "Lord’s House” like you are going for a Sean Paul concert. You don’t have to dress like you are about to have a luncheon with Queen Elizabeth either, keep it simple, but decent. A simple pair of trousers and a top that does not expose "your assets” too much would do. Or a knee-length dress with comfortable sandals. Remember, it’s a house of worship not a bar.

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